In an earlier article, I talked about how to get clarity so you can kick overwhelm, take impactful actions and get on your fastest path to cash.

The first step is to get in touch with your “big Why, What, Who and How”, and this means stepping up to claim your big vision.

This may sound simple, but I have worked with many people who keep saying, “I don’t know” when it comes to defining what they want their businesses to be, and how they want to BE in their businesses.
It is not that we don’t know – deep down, we all have some inkling. That’s why we broke out of the mold and blaze our own trail.
It’s there, and we KNOW it. But we can’t seem to “come clean” about it and we hold ourselves back from declaring it.
Part of the reason what we shy away from this clarity is because we think that if we don’t say it out loud (even just to ourselves), we won’t be disappointed if we give up, walk away, and let the dream die.
We have all been hurt, let down, disappointed by others (or even ourselves) in one form or the other. Even though an incidence may seem insignificant when you look back, if you have not addressed the sadness, anger, and emotions fully and completely, it is driving (sabotaging) you subconsciously in some way.
When the hurt happened, when the disappointments piled up, we tend to build a wall to protect ourselves.

We fence ourselves in, and with that, fence our potentiality and possibilities out.

Our Heart got callused, and our Guts got numb. We can no longer FEEL what is right for us, or use our intuition to guide our decisions.
We fall into the illusion of safety created by following what other people tell us, so we don’t have to walk out of the fence to face our own Truth (and risk getting hurt again.)
To melt that fence, you have to dig into that hurt, address it, feel it and let it run its course.
Ask that part of YOU – what does it need to know to release its grip on you?
This is not about doing that website, building that list or giving that workshop.


Are you holding yourself back from claiming your big-ass no-compromise vision because you are afraid of letting yourself down?
What do you get to lose if you flunk?
Oh boy, you have to once again deal with that itty-bitty-shitty committee in your monkey mind.

What do you gain if you make it happen? Everything.
You got to claim it, own it, before you can make it happen.

You gotta be in it to win it.


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Ling_WongThrough her unique blend of business + marketing coaching with a Mindset + Psychic Twist, LING WONG helps Maverick Entrepreneurs nail their message, claim their superpowers and muster up the GUTS to monetize their Truth so they can build a purposeful and profitable Personality-Driven business that is a full expression of their creativity and individuality.

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